Ready to Network? Boost Your Small Talk Game!”

Ready to Network? Boost Your Small Talk Game!”

Making conversation can feel tricky, especially if you’re shy or struggle with social anxiety. However, small talk is a great way to start a conversation and build a connection, whether in casual or professional settings.

What Is Small Talk?

Small talk is a light, casual conversation about simple topics between people who might not know each other well. Even though it might seem unimportant, small talk helps people connect, build trust, and start good relationships.

Asking simple, friendly questions and showing real interest can help make a strong connection. If you’re nervous about starting a conversation, consider a few topics or questions beforehand. This can make you feel more confident and comfortable in social situations.

Small talk generally has three main parts:

  1. Ice Breaker: This is how you start the conversation, usually with a simple comment or question to get things going.
  2. Building Rapport: This is the middle of the conversation, where you ask follow-up questions, show interest, and keep the dialogue flowing.
  3. Exit: This is how you wrap things up politely, leaving the conversation on a positive note.

Mastering these steps can make small talk feel more natural and enjoyable!

Small Talk Topics

Below are some topics and questions you may use in small talk:

  1. Work
  • How long have you worked as a [job title]?
  • How long have you worked at [company]?
  • What do you enjoy most about your job?
  • That’s an interesting line of work. How did you get into it?
  1. Food
  • Do you have any ideas for work lunches? I’m out of ideas, and I’m sick of sandwiches.
  • What’s your favorite type of food?
  • Tell me about your go-to comfort food.
  1. Weather
  • Lovely day, don’t you think?
  • Looks like rain’s in the forecast.
  • Did you order this beautiful weather?
  1. Entertainment
  • What’s your favorite band/song? Why?
  • What are your favorite movies?
  • What are you currently streaming?
  1. Travel
  • Do you know any places locally that might be considered “hidden gems”?
  • Where was your last vacation to?
  • Do you have recommendations for airlines?

What other topics do you think are good to ask about? And which ones should be avoided? Share your ideas!

Check out other questions through this video:

References:

Dale Carnegie. (2020, July 15). How to improve your small talk skills. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGoIoDuf83o

Indeed. (n.d.). How to make small talk. Indeed. https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/how-to-make-small-talk

Verywell Mind. (n.d.). Small talk topics. Verywell Mind. https://www.verywellmind.com/small-talk-topics-3024421#toc-how-to-start-small-talk